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"first impressions count most," they say. "first impressions delude most," I say. No matter how many people you acquaint with , or how confident of your judgment you feel, you could still be fooled by that warm smile and that sweet, twisted tongue , into thinking of one as being angelic. similarly you could mistakenly shun some away ,believing they are maleficent , based on a shallow judgment from a mere encounter or so.

occurrences manifest one's true being. They sharpen our mentality , and open our eyes. throughout history, how many a friend became a foe, and how many a foe became a friend . but who is who? and what is what? To give full trust, one must not . Only he, the almighty, knows what resides in the heart from thought or will. So regardless of all, treat everyone the way you wish to be treated. your deeds and treatment are who you are, they are the mirror reflection of your background and standards.

forgive as much as you can, give second chances, but never let the same flame burn you twice, because the only fool then would be you , and only you. 

keep ur distance

"علاقة البشر بالبشر أشبه بعلاقة السيارات بالسيارت , ان لم تترك مسافه بينك وبينهم كثرت عليك الصدمات "

In every relationship , we should keep some distance. perhaps we ought to set a certain line that is never to be crossed no matter what. People come and go. They enter and exit our lives via different means and either leave good memories or the contrary. As humans, we are blessed with the ability to forget. Time heals wounds they say, but what about losses? sometimes, when someone unique "exits" ur life , it is, indeed, a loss. Misunderstanding is the worst distance between any two people, so , again, regardless of good will or intention, we must be careful regarding the consequences of our choices of speech or action.